What happens to a Will after separation or divorce In both Alberta and Saskatchewan, separation doesn’t do anything particular to your Will, but divorce is another story. In Alberta, we look for guidance from the Wills and Succession Act, and in Saskatchewan, we look for guidance from the Wills Act. If you get divorced, any provisions in your will that benefit your former spouse are … [Read more...] about Estate Planning After Divorce
Co-Parenting
Introducing New Partners to the Children after Divorce
When should you introduce the children to a new partner after divorce? It’s not so much about the exact number of weeks or months, rather it should be guided by a couple things – first, emotional readiness of the children and second, the status of the relationship On the emotional readiness front, it’s important that you and your children are emotionally ready for the introduction. … [Read more...] about Introducing New Partners to the Children after Divorce
Transitions Between Homes for Children of Divorce
What is a transition in the context of separation and divorce? This topic is about children being transported from one home to the other home or from one parent to the other parent when the children live in two homes after their parents are separated or divorced. There are many things that can go well, and many things that can go poorly, so today we will give parents some tips on how to make … [Read more...] about Transitions Between Homes for Children of Divorce
Nesting in Divorce
What is nesting? Nesting, in the context of divorce, refers to a co-parenting arrangement where the children remain in the family home while the parents take turns living there. Instead of the children moving between two homes, the parents alternate their time in the home. What are some of the benefits of nesting? 1. **Stability for Children**: Children can stay in their home … [Read more...] about Nesting in Divorce
Tips for a Successful “Back to School” After Separation or Divorce
It’s all in the preparation. It will either be a successful back-to-school experience for the kiddos or it’ll be a stressful time. Here’s some ideas for how to best prepare your children for a great start to the school year! What can parents do to prepare for the start of the school year? First, get involved with your kids’ preparation for school, with things like buying school … [Read more...] about Tips for a Successful “Back to School” After Separation or Divorce
Mediation vs Collaborative Divorce
What is Divorce Mediation? Divorce mediation is a process where a neutral third party, known as a mediator, helps divorcing couples work through their issues and reach agreements outside of the courtroom on various aspects of their divorce, such as division of assets, child custody, and spousal support. The mediator facilitates communication and negotiation between the spouses to help them … [Read more...] about Mediation vs Collaborative Divorce
Powerful Non-Defensive Communication for Divorced Parents
What is powerful non-defensive communication Powerful non-defensive communication is a communication style that focuses on expressing oneself assertively and honestly without becoming defensive or aggressive. It involves actively listening, validating others' perspectives, and responding calmly and non-reactively. This approach aims to foster understanding, empathy, and constructive dialogue … [Read more...] about Powerful Non-Defensive Communication for Divorced Parents
Best Interests of the Kids in ADR
When we talk about the best interests of the kids, this is or ought to be at the forefront of all conversations about divorce settlement as well as court-resolved matters. In the resolution options that I offer to clients, being Collaborative Divorce and Mediation, it is at the forefront of all of our settlement discussions. In these out of court options, parents can prioritize more easily … [Read more...] about Best Interests of the Kids in ADR