What is powerful non-defensive communication Powerful non-defensive communication is a communication style that focuses on expressing oneself assertively and honestly without becoming defensive or aggressive. It involves actively listening, validating others' perspectives, and responding calmly and non-reactively. This approach aims to foster understanding, empathy, and constructive dialogue … [Read more...] about Powerful Non-Defensive Communication for Divorced Parents
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Best Interests of the Kids in ADR
When we talk about the best interests of the kids, this is or ought to be at the forefront of all conversations about divorce settlement as well as court-resolved matters. In the resolution options that I offer to clients, being Collaborative Divorce and Mediation, it is at the forefront of all of our settlement discussions. In these out of court options, parents can prioritize more easily … [Read more...] about Best Interests of the Kids in ADR
Coping with Loneliness after Separation or Divorce
This is a difficult topic, but I’ve found several strategies and tips that can help you navigate this difficult time. Let’s go ahead with my Top 10 Tips. Tip 1: Join Support Groups Surround yourself with others who are going through similar experiences by joining support groups for individuals going through divorce or dealing with loneliness. Connecting with others who understand what … [Read more...] about Coping with Loneliness after Separation or Divorce
Interest-Based Negotiations: A Primer
What’s the difference between an interest and a position? Very basically, our viewers can think of a position as a legal outcome or a demand, whereas an interest can be thought of as the underlying reason why someone wants that particular outcome. Think of the position as the tip of the iceberg – and the interests as all the rest of the iceberg below the surface of the water. Examples of … [Read more...] about Interest-Based Negotiations: A Primer
How can Technology be a Helpful Resource when going through a Divorce
Technology can be a powerful and multifaceted resource for individuals going through divorce, offering various benefits across different aspects of the process. Here are several ways in which technology can be a helpful resource for individuals navigating divorce: Overall, by leveraging technology in these various ways, individuals going through divorce can access a wide range of resources … [Read more...] about How can Technology be a Helpful Resource when going through a Divorce
Challenges and Opportunities when using Technology for Co-Parenting and Communication after divorce
When utilizing technology for co-parenting and communication after divorce, several challenges and opportunities emerge, shaping the dynamics of post-divorce parenting and the interactions between co-parents. The integration of technology into co-parenting arrangements can offer convenience, transparency, and efficiency, but it also presents potential hurdles related to privacy, co-parental … [Read more...] about Challenges and Opportunities when using Technology for Co-Parenting and Communication after divorce
Impact of Digital Communication on Divorce Negotiations and Communication between Divorcing Parties
The rise of digital communication has profoundly impacted divorce negotiations and communication in several ways, fundamentally reshaping how divorcing individuals interact, share information, and navigate the complexities of the divorce process. The widespread adoption of digital communication tools, such as email, text messaging, video calls, and online platforms, has both facilitated and … [Read more...] about Impact of Digital Communication on Divorce Negotiations and Communication between Divorcing Parties
Impact of Social Media on Divorce Cases
The impact of social media on divorce cases has become increasingly significant in recent years. Social media platforms provide a virtual stage for individuals to share their thoughts, emotions, and experiences with a wide audience, and this has the potential to impact divorce cases in various ways. To mitigate the impact of social media on divorce cases, individuals going through a divorce … [Read more...] about Impact of Social Media on Divorce Cases






