All separated parents somehow will need to figure out a way to parent their children. The ultimate question will be how close or distant will that parenting be. The level of detail in a parenting plans usually run along a continuum where as a divorce professional I can help parents to adjust based on their level of conflict. Where parents have a lot of conflict, how can they work … [Read more...] about What’s a Parallel Parenting Plan, and How is it Different from a Co-Parenting Plan?
Written Agreements
Child Support for Children Pursuing Post-Secondary Education
Allow me to remind you at the outset that this topic is covered by both federal and provincial laws. The federal Divorce Act is for those families who are married and seeking a divorce. The provincial legislation in either Alberta or Saskatchewan that applies to unmarried parents or to married parents who aren’t looking to get a divorce. This blog will cover how it works in each of … [Read more...] about Child Support for Children Pursuing Post-Secondary Education
All About “Shared Parenting” Canadian-Style
Shared Parenting has a different meaning in Canada than in the US. In this blog we will be looking at the Canadian version of this term. What is shared parenting? In essence, it’s describing a certain allocation of parenting time between parents – it’s where each parent has at least 40% of the time with the children in a year. It used to be called “shared custody” under the old … [Read more...] about All About “Shared Parenting” Canadian-Style
What is an Interspousal Agreement?
People often ask what is meant by an Interspousal Agreement, and why one would be necessary after a separation or whether one should be signed during a relationship? It’s not something that is legally required, but it’s recommended in many circumstances whether separating or continuing to live together. Continue reading to find out more. What is an Interspousal Agreement? Is it the same … [Read more...] about What is an Interspousal Agreement?
How to Create a Holiday Parenting Schedule After Separation or Divorce
How do you plan for the holidays when you’re separated or divorced? You’ll likely already have a “regular” parenting schedule for the majority of the year (check out our blog on this topic), but there should be special attention paid to creating a schedule especially for the holidays. How do Parents Work Out Sharing of Children for Holidays? Define what holidays are important – the … [Read more...] about How to Create a Holiday Parenting Schedule After Separation or Divorce
How to Create a Parenting Schedule After Separation or Divorce
Creating a parenting schedule is one of the first things that happens on separation or divorce, because it’s what follows directly after a move from one home into two. Both parents need to be able to see the children, and a schedule is the easiest way to make sure that happens. Creating one isn’t always that easy. Here’s some ideas to make it easier. Where can parents start … [Read more...] about How to Create a Parenting Schedule After Separation or Divorce
How do we Create a Technology Plan for Parenting in Two Homes?
Kids’ use of technology is difficult to manage at the best of times. Throw in children who have two homes because their parents are separated or divorced, and it makes it just that much more difficult. I hope that this blog gives co-parents some ideas to help them through. What should parents consider regarding their children’s use of technology across two homes? First there’s … [Read more...] about How do we Create a Technology Plan for Parenting in Two Homes?
Our Family In Two Homes Workbook
I’ve been using an innovative Workbook in both my legal & mediation practice called Our Family In Two Homes. Separation and Divorce can be overwhelming to many families - most people have never embarked on this process and don't know where to get started. There are 3 parts to the Workbook: Foundations of effective co-parenting – working on things like trust, communication, conflict … [Read more...] about Our Family In Two Homes Workbook